any other Monday
yes, Odysseus is gone... Rasputin was serious and handed him a ticket and money and drove him to the bus station today... I did not know Ody had a son where he is going... apparently, as confused as he is, he's going to depend on his 18 year old son (who's been forced to be pretty independent already since Ody is his more responsible parent and hasn't seen him in years) to help him find work (but he's convinced that he's going to teach his son about responsibility and life)... I hope his son can help him and they find much success in whatever they do...
though for the time being, preferably not in Orlando...
I feel so mean for thinking that, but I know the leech mindset wel and I've had more than my share of hangers-on in this life and I've promised myself no more... in talking to Raspy about Ody, Raspy said that Ody has always been this way (dependent, depressed) and the Ody we saw the past two weeks is better than he's ever been... Raspy thinks his mom's finally leaving might have kicked Ody enough to wake him up a bit... sad though, if this is his best ever...
there is apparently some family back where he is going, but only one actually said Ody could stay and limited it to a few days... meanwhile, I am reassured to see that Raspy did make Ody keep his word and we are not enabling him any more... I did hand Raspy some money to help cover what he gave Ody cuz Raspy tapped himself for the rest of the month (Raspy just had to hand him all his money being the good guy he is) and he and Precious shouldn't suffer for being his brother's keeper for a little while... and so after spraying the couch and carpet with Fabreeze, life is sort of back to normal around here...
so any other Monday I'd have napped into a deep sleep and ate very light and gotten good rest and balanced the high caloric weekend, but the energy level was high this evening (even Raspy and Precious were awake and talking and the TV was off when I got home) and so I rode the wave... you shouda been here... better yet, you shoulda been at Disney with Jackson and me this weekend...
work continues to be surreal and almost farcicle as the office cubicle was sort of finished, but the move did not begin because the one-day-a-week person did not move, so the former PI person could not move, so I raised the profile of my relative officelessness (I actually share two offices, but don't claim a desk of my own at the moment because people are working at every desk and I am training my assistant {who is creeping along way too slowly as her learning curve is way too steep to make this reorganization actually work, but I'll give it more time and spend my days developing baby step instruction sheets for every task for her [and let the data and PI work fall behind a month or two] and hope she surprises me one of these days} at my data desk) and had more people noticing and asking and other director's praised me for my patience and adaptability and the ridiculousness of the situation (me wheeling my little table-office around) livened the day and probably raised moral more than lowered it (and that's part of my job too)...
so that's Monday, just like any other Monday, only different...
and just when you thought this was over (it is, mostly), let's all wish z0tl a safe journey (or comisseration) since his planned vacation to Cancun just might get washed out by Hurricane Dean...pack rain gear and boots, z, and don't drink the water... the man has impeccable timing, aye?...
thanks for being here and may you be feeling wonderful tonight :)
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7 Comments:
Happy to hear that home is more like home again :)
Best wishes to z0tl of teh context...safe travels, fair skies, calm winds, and a lighthearted skip in your step.
I had chicken and rice soup and a strawberry Pop-Tart tonight (yes, the kind with frosting and happy sprinkles cuz I just love the pretty colors and frosting somehow makes everything seem like a party).
So, happy trails to you this fine Monday evening out here in the land of the Angels.
Love, hugs, smiles, and a sigh that can only come from having just eaten such colorful, happy sprinkles :)
Hi Candoor thanks,
seems the Penn State Uni News Releases site is temporarily down, so I've opened another link for now.
Hey Candoor,
a change is as good as a rest, for Ody and for everyone.
So you still working on the hoof without a desk.
Tempted to make a crack about z0tl, Cancun and the hurricane, but wouldn't want to rouse his wrath
Hope he manages to weathers the storm and comes back from the hols in tip top form
Good morning, boy, you have a lot of blogs, I had to look to find a current post.
Thanks for visiting my blog.
Lonely? Get out and about more. Try a Unitarian Fellowship, or find a Bahai group in your area, they seem like great folks to me.
If you are lonely because you don't have a mate, a lot of us are on that boat. But women have gotten so far off track that it's hard to find one that is a good team member.
Such is life here. Hugs.
i axe u, when's my turn to leech, eh?
"ody and raspy" - a standup tragedy by william candorspear. you need a stage name.
lol... many a yes to offer here... and I could have sworn I already commented back, but maybe I was dreaming (or the gremlins ate it)...
S - pretty colors make food taste better, it's scientific and all... they dragged me to Macaroni Grill tonight (instead of my salad)... of course I was kicking and screaming... I must run tonight...
Q - hopefully the change will be good all around... definitely better here... and the office moves were finally started today, so I have my own office now... just need to get some maintenence work done and telephone changes and the IT girl to set up a new computer (and get a quote on the one I requested)... I told her I'm gonna keep the laptop until the new computer is set up rather than use the old computer on the desk cuz my email is spread out enough as it is...
bbc - these are just my blogspot blogs... I've got some others too :)
some choose to compromise more with age out of loneliness or perhaps wisdom, I compromise less with age... that's what my instinct tells me to do.. so lonely due to no mate is correct, but still having more fun than anybody I know...
I'd rather be lonely and happy than be with someone and miserable...
z - Wontiam Stirspear (stirred, not shaken?... won't, not will)...
you can have the couch anytime (cuz we know you don't plan on trying to make it permanent)... and besides, I've met you, you bathe :)
I am trying to be leech-proof... meanwhile, I paid for Macaroni Grill for 3 tonight, but hey, we celebrated getting our living room back... happy new year :)
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